There are so many reasons people chose to babywear, and they may even vary from child to child for the same person!
Initially, for me, babywearing was a matter of convenience. I had an older child I needed to walk to school across a muddy field and really didn’t relish the thought of cleaning those pram wheels!
I dug out the same close caboo carrier with my third baby, but this time round I really didn’t like it. I was wanting to use it more often and for longer periods of time as this time around I needed to babywear for a different reason; my husband was deployed and this baby would not be put down. I was so stressed, I felt like a failure – unable to calm my baby and also unable to give my older children the attention they needed. Add postnatal depression into the mix and we had a recipe for disaster. It was then that I found out about a sling libary and we managed to get an appointment, which was a game changer.
Babywearing helped me to feel less stressed as it enabled me to be hands free with the older children, whilst still fulfilling the needs of the baby to be held close to me.
One day I realised that actually I had felt less of a failure that day, and each day after that was an improvement. I finally felt like I was able to bond with my youngest and wearing her became something I enjoyed, rather than something that was an essential to getting through daily life. I was able to wean off of the antidepressents I was on and by the time my husband came home I was, dare I say it, doing well at the whole solo parenting thing! I even purchased a house whilst he was away!
By the time I had my fourth child babywearing was so ingrained into my parenting practice that it was a natural part of parenting for me. It was literally a lifesaver for us when she was diagnosed with severe reflux. Unless she was upright she was in so much pain and so much discomfort that she would just scream, thankfully the sling allowed her to get some much needed rest and relief from the pain. That child is now 4 and still enjoys a sling snuggle, especially on a long walk when her little legs become tired. Though she insists on a rainbow sling now, and nothing else will suffice!
By baby number 5 I had amassed a variety of slings and carriers, and even more reasons for babywearing! I love the fact that I can express myself through the wraps and carriers I chose and the fact that I am not limited on where I go – with babywearing the world is more accessible than with a pram!
So in summary – why might you babywear?
To have your hands free for tasks or other children
For practicality
To bond or to enhance your bonding experience
To help with your mental health
To access areas that aren’t pram friendly
To express yourself
To help with a medical condition
To be able to comfort a baby who needs you close whilst you need to do other things.
Most importantly, because it is what works for you and your little one!
What is the difference between all the carriers and slings available? Which one will work best for me?
Every day on social media I see these questions asked. The original poster is often flooded with information they didn’t ask for and the world of babywearing suddenly becomes confusing and overwhelming!
Although there is no definitive answer to what is most suitable for you without a visit to your nearby sling library, which you can locate here, and experimenting with different options, this guide aims to provide you with an overview of the available choices. Some options may be missing as they’re no longer available to buy brand new – such as the close caboo.
Carriers and slings are like jeans; they come in a variety of sizes, styles, colours and patterns. Relying on recommendations without any professional advice can be costly. It would be similar to me asking for recommendations on jeans and being told that next long bootcut jeans are super comfy and will fit really well, so I go and buy them, and they do fit fantastically around the waist, but I discover at 5’3 that long jeans probably weren’t a great idea! Whilst this analogy is rather basic the principle is there – yes, I could have given more information when asking for recommendations, but then I might have been advised to buy newlook jeans, which I happen to know I don’t really get along with, but I know that from having tried them on in the shop – and that’s where a sling library really comes into its own. It offers you the opportunity to try slings and carriers without the costly price tag.
However, what can you do if you can’t get to the local sling library, or there isn’t one? How do you narrow down your options? Hopefully this post will help.
What types of carriers are there?
The types of carriers and slings I’m going to look at in this post are detailed below:
Stretchy wraps are a a single long peice of material that you wrap around you and your baby. See this post for more detailed information on stretchy wraps.
There are two types of stretchy wrap a 1-way and a 2-way, both types are tested from around 7lbs – 20lbs, though some brands, such as Izmi, have undergone testing for lower birth weights and state they can be used from 5lbs. Regardless of which type of wrap you choose you will have three layers over baby, two cross passes, which should be spread from knee to knee and up to the nape of the neck and a wrap pass that goes from under baby’s knees up to the nape of their neck. This third pass is essential to prevent baby from falling out.
2-way stretchy wrap
They are only suitable for front and hip carries in which the baby is facing the wearer. Many people will move on from a stretchy wrap to something else when their baby is around 4-6 months old.
You can usually pick up good quality stretchy wraps second hand, which ofsets the cost against the longevity. However, even brand new stretchy wraps are reasonably priced.
A stretchy wrap is a great option for a newborn, especially those with low birth weights with consultant support.
Woven Wraps
Woven wraps are also a long piece of material that you wrap around yourself and your baby. They are suitable from newborn to big kid and can be used on the front, back and hip.
Woven wraps are arguably the most adaptable carrier on the market, they come in a variety of sizes, blends, colours and patterns – there truly is something for everyone and every age!
However, thay also come with a significant learning curve which can be offputting to a sleep deprived new parent! Conversely, once you have the hang of it wrapping and experimenting can be great fun!
Size 4 Oscha Slings woven wrap
Anybody can make most sizes from a size 4 upwards work for them, you just need to adjust the carry that you use.
For a begninner I would recommend starting with a lightweight wrap in your base size or shorter and an easycare blend. However, if you’re looking at wrapping a toddler a lightweight cotton wrap may not be the most comfortable.
Carries will generally be described as a base+ or – carry. For more about working out your base size and woven blends etc see this post.
Buckle Carriers (AKA full buckle carriers or Semi- Structured Carriers)
This section can be a bit of a minefield as there are so many options – how do you know what to pick? What is suitable for your child? What is likely to work for you? Thispostgoes into more detail about some of the most common brands and their features. However, to give you a starting point if interested in a buckle carrier this section should be informative.
Buckle carriers have a buckle waist belt, with straps that can be crossed or form a H shape on your back and buckle up under your arms. There are a variety of options here, with apron and waterfall style carriers, carriers suitable for newborns and those aimed at toddlers. Full buckle carriers are the only carriers in which you will find front facing outward positions recommended by the manufacturer.
Oscha slings new Bairn carrier
As a quick starting point many carriers claim to be suitable from newborn, but are difficult to get a good fit with. However, the Mamaruga Zen Sling, Ergobaby Embrace and Oscha Bairn do seem to be good options for newborns, and with the exception of the embrace do offer a good longevity if purchased for a newborn. None of these options offer forward facing out.
Some buckle carriers work well for newborns with some adjustments or with an insert, such as the IzmiBaby, Integra size 1, Kahubaby and some ergobaby carriers. The beauty of the Izmi and integra carriers is that they are thin and soft against your new baby’s skin, with minimal padding.
If your child is over 4 months most baby size buckle carriers will give you a good fit, so it’s just deciding if you would like to opt for a carrier with lots of padding, like the ergobaby 360, or a thinner apron style carrier like the Kahubaby, you will also want to consider if forward facing is an option that you really need, and bear in mind that it is only recommended for short periods of time after your child is sitting independently and only until around 12 months. Most buckle carriers will offer the options of front facing parent, hip and back carries as standard. If you are looking for a toddler buckle carrier, many of the already named brands also offer toddler and preschool sizes.
Half buckle carriers
Half buckle carriers are carriers that have a buckle waist band attached to a panel in which baby sits with wrap type straps that you wrap around your body and baby and tie off to secure. They offer front parent facing, hip and back carrying positions.
Didymos Didyklick half buckle
They are usually made out of woven wrap fabric, and you may have the choice of full wrap straps as pictured below or padded to wrap straps, which is more similar to a standard buckle carrier. As with buckle carriers, they do come in a variety of sizes, with some more adjustable than others. However, due to how soft they are they are easily adjusted to get a good fit for smaller babies and so can justifiably claim to be suitable from newborn. Many are also adaptable to much bigger children too.
Some brands that make halfbuckle carriers are: Didymos Didyklick, Oscha Cairis, or the LennyLamb LennyHybrid. There is also the option of buying a woven wrap and having it professionally converted, which will also give you more scope on the features you include.
Meh Dai
A Meh Dai carrier can be used from newborn, and like a half buckle, is easily adaptable. It is usually made out of a woven fabric, and can be used on the front, hip and back.
Didymos Meh Dai DidyTai
It is used similarly to a half buckle, but instead of a buckle waist band it has fabric straps that you tie around your waist.
This is a great option for pregnant women who would like to continue carrying, but for whom structured waistbands have become uncomfortable.
Meh-Dai carriers may also be described as a bei-dai or formally a Meh-Tai, some may also come with a ring fastening option at the waist.
Onbuhimo
An Ombuhimo is a traditional Japenese carrier that has become incredibly popular recently. Traditionally it offers a high back carry for children who have good torso control.
Oscha Slings Ombuhimo
An ombuhimo has no waist band and the child’s legs fit through the straps, with their arms over the top of the panel. Most come with a chest strap to help prevent the straps from slipping down.
Whilst the ideal height is to have the child with their shoulders level with yours, a slightly lower carry is still safe. Some brands have tested their ombuhimos for younger children in a front carry poisiton too, so if you are wanting this as an option, do look around!
Ring Slings
Ring slings are a good option for newborns and big kids alike, although, as with woven wraps the blend you chose for your ring sling could impact how comfortable it is with a toddler. See this post (coming soon) for information on woven wraps and their blends.
Oscha gathered shoulder ring sling
Ring slings offer a one shoulder carry and can be used front off centre for a newborn, on the hip, or if more eperienced, on the back. They are suitable for all ages and one size will fit all children, generally.
They are quick to set up and can be worn under a coat ready for those quick up and downs. They are a great option for carrying a baby from the car to school on a school run, or for toddler ups and downs when they’re not sure what they want to do!
Summary
Whilst I’ve done my best to cover the most common options here there are options I haven’t covered, and if you would like more information on those, please feel free to connect with me! Furthermore, I haven’t gone into depth on all of the options available, though more indepth posts will be coming soon!
All of the options I have covered are available to hire from the library. If you would like a 1:1 consultation to work out what works best for you, you can book thathere.
Finally, as a non-profit library we rely on donations to expand our collection. If you would like to help us out please feel free to donate through here.
Stretchy wraps are a single long piece of material that you wrap around you and your baby.
There are two types of stretchy wrap a 1-way and a 2-way, both types are tested from around 7lbs – 20lbs, though some brands, such as Izmi, have undergone testing for lower birth weights and state they can be used from 5lbs.
A hanababy 2- way stretchy warp with an hour old baby
Regardless of which type of wrap you choose you will have three layers over baby, two cross passes, which should be spread from knee to knee and up to the nape of the neck and a wrap pass that goes from under baby’s knees up to the nape of their neck. This third pass is essential to prevent baby from falling out.
Stretchy wraps of both types can come in a variety of different materials, colours and patterns, however do be wary of extra cheap ones as after a couple of washes some of these can lose their elasticity.
Who is it good for?
A stretchy wrap is a great option for most newborns as it moulds perfectly to baby’s body. Furthermore, with consultant support it is an excellent option for babies born prematurely or with low birth weights.
Stretchy wraps are usually best from birth to around 4-6 months, although they can be used for longer if both wearer and baby are comfortable.
How do I use it?
A stretchy wrap can be tied in several ways, however, most instruction manuals only show the pocket wrap cross carry method of tying. It can be used on the hip and front, and can be breastfed in.
How you use a stretchy wrap will vary depending on which type you are using. In many online spaces unhelpful comments such ‘tie it swimsuit tight’ are given to parents asking for a fit check. This is unhelpful as it does not apply to a 1-way stretchy and can cause frustration for sleep deprived parents who are trying to follow those instructions.
There are many good tutorials on youtube, but I would recommed this one for a 2 – way stretchy, and this one for a 1 – way stretchy for the most common carry, a pocket wrap cross carry. However, for a 1-way stretchy I personally prefer a front wrap cross carry – similar to an early woven wrap carry, and I would recommend using this video for it – I find that it is easier to tighten than a pocket wrap cross carry with a 1 way stretchy.
So what is the difference between the two types?
2-way stretchy wrap
A 2-way stretchy wrap with a 3 month old baby
A 2-way stretchy wrap will stretch equally both along and across the wrap, this means you can get it nice and snug and is easier to get right when pre-tied. It makes it easier to ‘pop’ the carry, meaning you can tie the wrap when you get dressed in the morning and pop your little one in and out throughout the day as you need. This is the type of wrap that you will often see people telling you needs to be ‘swimsuit tight’.
Brands such as Izmi, Hana, Lifft, and Joy and Joe are UK based businesses that offer 2-way stretchy wraps.
1-way stretchy wrap
A one way stretchy wrap will only stretch noticeably in one direction – usually this is across the width. Whilst this does offer more support, and thus the wearer may find it comfortable to reach the upper weight limits, it is harder to pretie and will often require tightening and adjusting once it is on. Although, as you can see from this video, once you have some experience you may well find that you can do your adjustments prior to putting baby in. However, it is not as easily ‘poppable’ as a 2-way!
Brands that sell 1-way stretchy wraps include: Freerider, Funky Flamingo and Moby
Benefits of a stretchy wrap
You can usually pick up good quality stretchy wraps second hand.
They are reasonably priced brand new
They are a good option for keeping on throughout the day and popping baby in and out as needed
They are lightweight
They adjust to fit baby and wearer perfectly
Genuinely suitable for newborns, including premature babies.
Breastfeeding friendly.
Lots of UK manufacturers to choose from and support a small business for 2-way stretchy wraps
Lots of places to buy 1-way stretchy wraps
Lots of tutorial videos available
Disadvantages of a stretchy wrap
They do have a bit of a learning curve
They are only suitable for front and hip carries in which the baby is facing the wearer.
They are not as long-lasting as some of the other options out there, with many people moving on from a stretchy wrap to something else when their baby is around 4-6 months old.
Summary
Stretchy wraps are a great option for all new parents if you don’t mind the learning curve.
Arguably the most adaptable, but most confusing form of babywearing out there!
Ever wondered what a woven wrap is, or how to use one? How do you decide what size to buy? What about the blend or brand? These are all really common questions and whilst the answers are out there they can often be hard to find.
Oscha woven wrap
A woven wrap is a length of woven fabric used to carry a baby. The length can vary most commonly from 2.7m – 5.7m.
The practice of wrapping babies has existed for hundreds of years, though how it looks varies between cultures. This article is a wonderful exploration of the cultural traditions of wrapping babies.
This guide can be read in its entirity, or you can click on the links below to go directly to the section you need most.
A woven wrap is a great option for most people looking to wear their child. They are one of the few options that are genuinely suitable from birth until the end of your carrying days. They don’t need adjusting when switching between parents or carers.
Woven wraps also offer the chance to adapt carries to suit your needs and mood. There are many pre-tieable options as well, so you can tie it before you go out, then all you need to do is pop baby in and tighten it before you’re good to go. A set of sling rings can make ‘poppable’ carries even easier!
Whilst many people may have multiple wraps, or choose to continually update their collection, there are just as many people who stick to just the one wrap for the duration of their babywearing days. More about why people may decide to change or add new wraps to their collections can be found in the section on blends. Therefore, woven wraps can be a very cost effective option, especially given that they can easily be picked up secondhand.
Finally, they also give a wonderful way of expressing yourself outside of parenthood. They come in such a variety of colours, patterns that there truly is something for everyone.
What size do I need?
Woven wraps are generally sold in sizes starting at a 2 and going up to a 9, though size 9s are increasingly difficult to find. Most people will start with what is known as their base size. This is the smallest size in which you can comfortably tie off a Front Wrap Cross Carry (FWCC) which is the usual first carry to learn – see carries for more information.
Size chart from Oscha Slings
In the UK the most common base size is a 6 or 7. This chart from Oscha Slings sets out how to work out your base size, however, it is not fail proof. If you are wrapping an older child you may wish to size up, and if you are particularly petite you may wish to size down. You should also be aware that base sizes can change as your child grows.
To answer the question, the short answer is: almost any size! There are common and comfortable carries that are easily available for sizes from base – 3/4 to beautiful fancy finishes with base+2 wraps.
The long answer is that it depends on what carry you would like to do. When researching woven wrap carries you will notice that they tend to refer to carries as a base carry, a base + or base – carry. In order to work out what size wrap you need it is important to work out your base size.
However, whatever wrap you opt for can still be used, regardless of your base size, which means it can still be shared between people of different base sizes – the only thing that needs adapting is the carry that you use.
Blends
Ok, so now I know what a woven wrap is, and what my base size is – how do I pick what materials I want?
The blend you pick will make a difference to how the wrap feels and wraps.
A piece of fabric being woven by hand
The majority of machine woven wraps have a cotton warp, and the weft yarn then varies. In the image, the warp is the yarn that is attached to the loom, the weft is the part that goes across.
Common wefts include: cotton, linen, hemp, wool and silk. They all have different properties and some may be combined so you get the benefits of different materials in the same wrap.
Cotton is an excellent allrounder. It is easycare so great for newborns who may have nappy explosions, or be sick as it can be easily washed and dried. It is fairly supportive, though better in multilayer carries for toddlers.
Linen is strong and breathable, though depending on the type of linen it can require a bit of work to break in, but is suitable for all ages. Thinner linen wraps are a great option for warmer weather. Thick linen offers more comfort on the shoulders with big kids. It is also easy care, but does wrinkle very easily!
Hemp is very much like linen, in that it offers a lot of support, but can take some work to soften up if brand new. More on methods of breaking in a wrap in this post. (Coming soon). It is also easy care, so can handle most things thrown at it! Hemp is a great option for toddlers, but if broken in can be used for newborns.
Wools: Apart from cashwool, wraps containing wool generally have to be handwashed only, and laid flat to dry. However, as a natural material they do help with temperature regulation. They generally offer a little bit of bounce and cush on the shoulders so are great for toddlers. Thinner wraps also work well for newborns.
Silks: There are several types of silks that are used in wraps and what type may vary between manufacturers, but the most common types that I have come across are bourette, peace silk and tussah silk.
Bourette and peace silk are both fairly thin and very strong. They are temperature regulating as a natural material and work well for all ages.
Comparison between Tussah Silk and Peace Silk
Tussah silk is a bit thicker, but gives a gentle cush to the wrap which I feel works better for bigger babies and toddlers.
In the picture you can see how much thicker the Tussah wrap on the left is when compared the the peace silk one on the right.
GSM
GSM refers to the weight of the wrap, the higher the GSM the thicker the wrap is likely to feel. For someone with a small baby and limited experience of wrapping I would recommend opting for a wrap that is around or less than 250gsm – this makes it somewhat easier to learn as the wrap is fairly thin in hand and easier to work with.
A variety of woven wraps labelled with their GSM
However, for a toddler, you may prefer something a bit heavier for more support, unless you are using multilayer carries – which I tend to anyway. However, even if using single layer carries I would recommend sticking to a wrap under 300gsm and closer to 280gsm would likely be easier.
Where to buy a woven wrap
There are many places you can purchase a woven wrap in the UK. Once you have an idea of what size you want, you can search the various manufacturer or distributer websites.
UK distributers are a great way to access European brands without worrying about customs charges. Ruth at Carrying Connects is a UK retailer of Little Frog slings, which are a very reasonably priced option for beginning your wrapping journey. She also regularly places orders so if she hasn’t got something in stock she will likely be able to get it for you, though you may have to wait for the order to come through.
There are several UK retailers of Lenny Lamb slings:
Outside of the UK, Yaro wraps are very good with ensuring that parcels under £135 are appropriately labelled to ensure no customs charges, but the postage is a little steep. However, their wraps are less expensive than some other brands.
Mokosh is another brand that I love, but at the time of writing I am unsure of their import and postage costs to the UK.
There are so many other reputable and excellent brands, but I have only listed the ones I have experience with here.
If you would like to buy second hand, there is usually a good variety of wraps listed on vinted, and on facebook in the babywearing groups, and brand specific groups, so it is always worth checking these groups out if you use social media.
Finally, don’t forget to contact your local sling library if you would like support when buying your first wrap – they are able to give you advice on your choice and often a discount code too!
How do I use a woven wrap?
Using your wrap really depends on how old your child is, and what size wrap you have. However, to get you started I have included some carries below with links to reputable tutorials on youtube. They are organised by the minimum size wrap you will need. You can use longer wraps if you have them. I have tried to include a mixture of pre-tied carries and ones that you tie as you go.
Front Carries
Base – 2
Pre-Tied Kangaroo carry – this carry can also be tied around a sleeping child and is a lovely newborn carry.
Front Wrap Cross Carry Tied under Bum (FWCC TUB) – this is a variation on the usual beginner carry that can be done with a shorter wrap. It is suitable for all ages of front carrying.
Short Cross Carry Variation Oscha Trees of Gondor (Base – 2)
Short Cross Carry – this is not great for children who lean a lot, but is a lovely pre-tie carry. The carry in the image is a variation which is pretied in the same manner, but the top pass goes over both legs instead of under one leg and over the other. It is tightened in the same manner.
Base – 1
Anne’s Cross Carry (Base-1) Oscha Legend of Frodo
Short Anne’s Cross Carry – Suitable for all ages of front carrying. This is a supportive and leaner friendly carry.
Base
Front Wrap Cross Carry (FWCC) this is the usual starting point for learning to wrap as it gives you the opportunity to learn how to tighten the wrap properly. There are many variations on this for how it can be finished. Some common variations are a pond finish and a lexi twist.
Front Double Hammock (Base) with Oscha Mithril
Front Double Hammock – this is a lovely carry for pre-tying, especially if you use a ring to secure it as it can then be easily ‘popped’ and tightened as required and you don’t need to keep rewrapping throughout the day. As a double layer carry it is super comfortable for bigger kids too! I have finished with a ring in the image, but you can finish with a secure double knot too.
Anne’s Front Wrap Cross Carry – this is the full length version of the short carry above, but gives longer, swishier tailes. This is an alternative method for tying it, but if you prefer the way of tying in the short version, that is fine too!
Base +1
Popparoo carry (Base +1) Oscha Hobbit Quest
Popparoo carry – this is a lovely carry for all ages and very supportive. It also looks incredibly pretty. With experience you may also find you can do this with a
shorter wrap.
Back Carries
Back carries are where shorter wraps really come into their own. Many carries are easily adapted to suit the size of wrap you own. Once you have mastered getting baby on your back and tying a ruck it can become quite fun, exploring new carries together and finding what works for you. This youtube playlist is a good starting point for learning about back carrying.
There are several methods you can use to get your child on your back, the most common ones are:
Santa Toss – this is generally used for very little babies
You may need to practice to find the method that works best for you, and I would highly recommend doing so with someone to catch baby if anything goes wrong, or by sitting on the edge of a bed or sofa so there is a close and soft landing until you are confident!
Carries
Ruck TUB in a firespiral wrap (Base -2)
Base – 4
Ruck tied under bum (Ruck TUB) – A basic ruck is the foundation of most back carries, and this one can be done with a very short wrap if you tie it off behind you under your child’s bum. This video shows it using the hip scoot method.
Base – 3
Double Hammock – Double Rings (DHDR) – this is a great carry for heavier children with the second layer giving more support, and being more comfortable for the caregiver.
Ruck with a Candy Cane Chest Belt (Ruck CCCB) – this is a lovely carry and still a basic carry. The chestbelt option ensures that the straps don’t slip and looks really pretty too! This carry starts off centre, which isn’t shown in the video.
Base -2
Base-2 wraps are a really popular size for a short wrap as they give you a lot of options to play with, but less fabric to work with.
Shepherd’s Carry – this is a more complicated carry with multiple layers, but a great back carry for leaners and bigger babies/toddlers. It is fairly supportive and looks pretty as well! The video below shows it with a flipped chest pass which helps with leg strighteners!
Base -1
Double Hammock Tied at Shoulder (DH TAS) – This is another multilayer carry so is good for bigger children. It is also a nice carry for children who like to lean!
Ruck tied knotless Tibetan – This is a great all round carry and is another variation of the basic ruck.
Base
Back Wrap Cross Carry (BWCC) – this is a great bigger child option, however, it isn’t great for leaners. There are a couple of different methods for this.
Double Hammock (DH) – this is a good carry to move on to after a basic ruck and once mastered you can do lots of fancy finishes with a longer wrap.
There are many more back carries available that you can try, but I recommend starting with these as it will get you used to how the passes work and what works best for you and your child. Most of the above carries also have fancy finish options that you can do with base+ wraps.
Summary
Whilst this guide has aimed to give you somewhere to start with woven wraps, it is impossible to give you every scrap of information and it was intended to be a starting point. There are a lot of excellent resources online, and your local sling library will be able to offer you further in person support.
As with any type of baby carrier – if you are unsure seek professional support. This guide is not intended to be a tutorial, but a basic guide to selecting and using a woven wrap.
There is no affiliation with any of the companies or videos linked in this article.
A Brief Guide to Buckle Carriers: Choosing Comfort and Ease for You and Your Baby
Buckle carriers have become increasingly more popular among parents who seek a comfortable, convenient, and hands-free babywearing solution. With so many carrier options available, however, the choice can feel overwhelming. How do you decide which one is right for you? The best place to start is often your local sling library, where you can try various carriers before making a big purchase. But if that’s not an option, don’t worry—this guide will introduce you to the differences between waterfalland apronstyle carriers, some key features to look out for, usage tips, and some reliable yet underrated British brands that are worth looking at. Don’t forget to check out the image galleryat the end, which highlights key features and examples discussed throughout the post.
What Are Buckle Carriers?
Oscha Bairn
Buckle carriers, often referred to as soft structured carriers, are a popular choice among parents due to their ease of use and ergonomic design. They provide a fuss-free way to carry your baby while keeping your hands free, whether you’re running errands, going for a walk, or simply snuggling at home.
With adjustable shoulder and waist straps secured by buckles, they’re quick to put on and take off, and their design ensures excellent weight distribution for both you and your baby. They come in a variety of sizes enabling you to carry your child from newborn up to the age of 5 or 6.
Waterfall vs. Apron Style Carriers
When shopping for a buckle carrier, you’ll encounter two main styles: waterfall and apron.
An image showing different types of carriers. From top to bottom: Integra, Mamaruga Zen Sling, Lenny up
Waterfall Style Carriers like Lenny Lamb, Ergobaby, Tula, Mamaruga, and Boba are more structured, often featuring thicker waistbands and the option for forward-facing carries. Their design offers extra support, but they can feel bulkier compared to apron styles.
Apron Style Carriers like Integra, Kahubaby, and Oscha’s Bairn focus on simplicity. They’re less structured, lighter, and tend to have fewer adjustment points, which many parents appreciate for their ease of use. While apron carriers are more minimalist, they still provide excellent comfort and support.
Why Choose a Buckle Carrier?
If you’re after a babywearing option that’s simple yet functional, buckle carriers are a fantastic choice. There’s no need to deal with complicated wraps or intricate knots, making them perfect for busy parents for whom convenience is key. Whether you’re tackling housework, heading to the park, or simply looking for a way to carry your baby close while keeping your hands free, buckle carriers offer a practical, stylish solution.
Key Features to Look For
Several key features set high-quality buckle carriers apart:
An image showing PFAs on the Boba X buckle carrier
– Perfect Fit Adjusters (PFAs): These allow for customizable adjustments to ensure both you and your baby are comfortable.
– Panel Height and Width Adjusters: Essential for ensuring a snug fit as your baby grows.
– Sleep Hoods: Provide extra privacy and protection from the elements.
– Dual-way Adjusters: Offer more flexibility when fastening and adjusting the carrier.
These features not only enhance comfort but also make babywearing a more enjoyable experience for both the parent and the baby.
Using Your Buckle Carrier
Using a buckle carrier is typically straightforward, but don’t be discouraged if you struggle to fasten it at first—this is common, and there are plenty of helpful tips to make it easier! Always refer to the manufacturer’s instructions for proper positioning and safety guidelines. It’s important to ensure your baby is seated in the ergonomic “M” shape, which supports healthy hip and spine development.
An image showing the ‘M’ Shape
Buckle carriers offer versatile carrying options, including front, back, and hip carries. While front-facing carries are a popular choice, not all buckle carriers support this position. In some cases, hip or back carries may be safer and more comfortable as your baby grows. You’ll also find that some buckle carriers offer a choice between X-shaped (crossed) straps or H-shaped (rucksack) straps, while others only offer one style. Try both if possible to see which suits you better.
Beyond functionality, buckle carriers come in a wide range of colours and designs, allowing you to showcase your style while babywearing—whether you prefer classic neutrals or vibrant patterns.
What to Avoid
While there are many fantastic options on the market, it’s essential to steer clear of carriers that compromise on safety or comfort. Brands like Infantino and older models of Baby Bjorn have faced criticism for lacking ergonomic support, potentially leading to discomfort for the baby. Always prioritize reputable brands that are known for their quality and safety standards.
Exploring British Babywearing Brands
Back carry in the Mamaruga Zen Sling with a 2 year old
If you’re looking to support local businesses, there are several excellent British babywearing brands that are worth exploring. Brands like Rose and Rebellion, Mamaruga, Izmi, and Kahubaby offer beautifully crafted, stylish, and functional buckle carriers. These lesser-known brands combine safety, comfort, and craftsmanship to provide parents with unique babywearing options.
Final Thoughts
Buckle carriers are a versatile and convenient option for babywearing, but finding the right one is a personal journey. There is no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to carriers—what works best for one parent may not suit another. The key is to focus on what feels comfortable and secure for you and your baby.
Whether you’re just beginning your babywearing adventure or are an experienced wearer looking to expand your collection, buckle carriers offer a fantastic way to keep your baby close while staying hands-free. With so many styles, features, and designs to choose from, there’s a perfect buckle carrier out there for every parent and caregiver. Above all, remember to prioritize safety, comfort, and proper positioning for a nurturing and enjoyable babywearing experience.
One thing I often see on facebook groups is ‘can I continue to wear my child whilst pregnant?’ The answer is generally yes, assuming that you are having a straight-forward and healthy pregnancy.
For many babywearing offers not only a convenient form of transport, but also becomes a comfort for both you and your child. It is, therefore unsurprising that many of us wish to continuing carrying our children throughout our pregnancy. This post will look at the benefits of babywearing while pregnant, safety tips, and how to choose the right carrier.
This guide can be read in its entirety, or you can click on any of the headings below to go straight to that section:
Babywearing is the practice of carrying your child in a sling, wrap, or carrier, letting you move freely while keeping your little one close. For many mums, this continues to be an enjoyable way to connect, even as their bodies change throughout pregnancy. However, it is vital that you listen to your body. Your comfort level should guide your decision, so pay close attention to how your body feels. Many women find that babywearing not only supports their current child emotionally but also helps manage the physical demands of pregnancy.
Benefits of Babywearing While Pregnant
There are significant benefits to babywearing during pregnancy.
A mehdai carrier
Enhancing the bond with your older child is perhaps the most profound benefit. As your family expands, feelings of jealousy or confusion can arise. Holding your little one close helps reassure them that they are still loved and valued.
Moreover, babywearing allows you to maintain your routine. Activities like park visits or playdates do not need to be complicated. You can maintain an active lifestyle whist still engaging with your older child, making life more manageable.
Safety Considerations
While babywearing can be safe during pregnancy, it is essential to keep some safety tips in mind:
First, be aware of your balance. As your pregnancy advances, your center of gravity shifts. Choose a carrier that evenly distributes weight and provides support. Many carriers can be used during pregnancy with a few adjustments. See the gallery for a selection of the range I have available in the library.
Furthermore, the position of your baby matters. Opt for a carrier that allows for an upright position to keep pressure off your abdomen. Ensuring that your child is securely positioned can minimize strain and keep both of you comfortable.
Considerations for Different Stages of Pregnancy
Your babywearing approach may change with each trimester. Here is how you can adapt:
First Trimester: Early on, you may find babywearing easier since your belly is small. Many women find at this stage they do not need to adapt their babywearing styles.
Second Trimester: This is often the period of time during which many women begin to feel uncomfortable as their bumps begin to grow and waistbands begin to feel tight or uncomfortable in their usual position. It is often at this stage that many ladies stop wearing their child. However, adjusting how you use your carrier, or changing carrier can extend your babywearing journey. If you are unsure do contact your local sling library for advice.
Third Trimester: You might feel more fatigued in this stage. Choose lightweight carriers, and limit how long you wear your child. Always listen to your body and adjust accordingly.
Choosing the Right Carrier
Selecting the right carrier is crucial for a positive babywearing experience. Your carrier should offer you and your child comfort and support: Look for ergonomic designs that are supportive and distribute weight evenly. For example, a well-designed soft-structured carrier with padded shoulder straps can go a long way in providing needed support.
There is no one size fits all carrier or sling, and what works for one person, may not be the best for you. However, here are some options that you could consider:
Using a buckle carrier with waistband positioned above the bump
A buckle carrier – in this image the Hanababy Expand available here is being used. A buckle carrier offers an easy option for those who already own one and are comfortable and confident using it.
Some adjustments tend to be needed to enable a safe and comfortable wearing experience. Waistbands should be placed above or below the bump depending on the size of the child and whether the carrier is being worn on the front, or the back. Whilst it should be snug, it should not be tight and should not be putting pressure on your bump. Many women find that a full buckle carrier becomes uncomfortable as their bump grows. However, some carriers (such as apron-style carriers) have less structured waistbands and these can be more comfortable as your pregnancy progresses. For example the Kahubaby carrier available here. You can read more about buckle carriers here.
A half-buckle carrier
A Half-buckle Carrier:
A half-buckle is a nice intermediary for those who like the ease of buckles, but prefer the comfort of a less structured carrier.
The market offers a wide variety of options. Some have padded wrap to straps as shown in the image, while others have full wrap straps, such as the Didyklick. Furthermore, waistbands differ in their level of structure, with some being more rigid and others less so, highlighting the need for careful research. However, on the whole, waistbands tend to be less structured than those on some full buckle carriers. Finally, one key advantage of a half-buckle carrier is that it is made from woven wrap fabrics, enabling it to mold perfectly to your body, providing a very comfortable experience.
A meh dai:
A meh dai carrier resembles a half-buckle carrier, but it features ties instead of a buckle waistband, offering a gentle and comfortable choice for use during pregnancy. It can be tied in multiple ways. Please refer to the gallery images for this carrier.
A ring sling with a 2 year old
A ring sling:
A ring sling is a good option for a hip carry whilst keeping mum’s hands free, or allowing for front snuggles.It can be used for a quick up, or for a toddler who cannot decide whether they would prefer to be carried or walk. They do put the majority of the weight on one side of the body, so may not be suitable for those who are struggling with back or hip pains.
A woven wrap:
A woven wrap is likely the most adaptable choice for carrying during pregnancy, as it can be effortlessly adjusted for the wearer’s comfort.
A woven wrap with the waistband spread
A woven wrap can be tied in numerous ways, giving you the choice to use a waistband or not, based on your preferences. Additionally, being made of woven fabric, they conform perfectly to you and your child, providing support that a buckled carrier might not offer.
When using a woven wrap during pregnancy, be cautious not to depend on it for bump support. As with any carrier, pay attention to your body and make sure the wrap isn’t exerting pressure on your abdomen. However, carries with waistbands can have the waistband extended to provide hip support, which can be quite relieving for some women. For more information on woven wraps, please check out this blog post.
An Onbuhimo:
An onbuhimo is a traditional Japanese-style carrier intended for use on the back. It lacks a waistband, making it ideal for pregnancy as it avoids putting pressure on your abdominal area. Most models also feature a chest strap to keep the straps from slipping off your shoulders. Additionally, they are easier to use than a woven wrap, yet offer a comfortable option during pregnancy. Please refer to the gallery of images of the onbuhimo.
Embracing Your Journey
In summary, babywearing while pregnant can be both a practical and fulfilling choice. By choosing the right carrier and following safety tips, you can continue to nurture your bond with your older child while navigating the wonderful yet challenging experience of pregnancy. Always listen to your body, and ensure that you are following any medical advice you have been given. Local sling libraries will also be able to offer you advice and support for babywearing during pregnancy.
Every family’s journey is different, so trust your instincts. Enjoy these precious moments as you prepare for your growing family!
