There are so many reasons people chose to babywear, and they may even vary from child to child for the same person!
Initially, for me, babywearing was a matter of convenience. I had an older child I needed to walk to school across a muddy field and really didn’t relish the thought of cleaning those pram wheels!
I dug out the same close caboo carrier with my third baby, but this time round I really didn’t like it. I was wanting to use it more often and for longer periods of time as this time around I needed to babywear for a different reason; my husband was deployed and this baby would not be put down. I was so stressed, I felt like a failure – unable to calm my baby and also unable to give my older children the attention they needed. Add postnatal depression into the mix and we had a recipe for disaster. It was then that I found out about a sling libary and we managed to get an appointment, which was a game changer.
Babywearing helped me to feel less stressed as it enabled me to be hands free with the older children, whilst still fulfilling the needs of the baby to be held close to me.
One day I realised that actually I had felt less of a failure that day, and each day after that was an improvement. I finally felt like I was able to bond with my youngest and wearing her became something I enjoyed, rather than something that was an essential to getting through daily life. I was able to wean off of the antidepressents I was on and by the time my husband came home I was, dare I say it, doing well at the whole solo parenting thing! I even purchased a house whilst he was away!
By the time I had my fourth child babywearing was so ingrained into my parenting practice that it was a natural part of parenting for me. It was literally a lifesaver for us when she was diagnosed with severe reflux. Unless she was upright she was in so much pain and so much discomfort that she would just scream, thankfully the sling allowed her to get some much needed rest and relief from the pain. That child is now 4 and still enjoys a sling snuggle, especially on a long walk when her little legs become tired. Though she insists on a rainbow sling now, and nothing else will suffice!
By baby number 5 I had amassed a variety of slings and carriers, and even more reasons for babywearing! I love the fact that I can express myself through the wraps and carriers I chose and the fact that I am not limited on where I go – with babywearing the world is more accessible than with a pram!
So in summary – why might you babywear?
To have your hands free for tasks or other children
For practicality
To bond or to enhance your bonding experience
To help with your mental health
To access areas that aren’t pram friendly
To express yourself
To help with a medical condition
To be able to comfort a baby who needs you close whilst you need to do other things.
Most importantly, because it is what works for you and your little one!
A Brief Guide to Buckle Carriers: Choosing Comfort and Ease for You and Your Baby
Buckle carriers have become increasingly more popular among parents who seek a comfortable, convenient, and hands-free babywearing solution. With so many carrier options available, however, the choice can feel overwhelming. How do you decide which one is right for you? The best place to start is often your local sling library, where you can try various carriers before making a big purchase. But if that’s not an option, don’t worry—this guide will introduce you to the differences between waterfalland apronstyle carriers, some key features to look out for, usage tips, and some reliable yet underrated British brands that are worth looking at. Don’t forget to check out the image galleryat the end, which highlights key features and examples discussed throughout the post.
What Are Buckle Carriers?
Oscha Bairn
Buckle carriers, often referred to as soft structured carriers, are a popular choice among parents due to their ease of use and ergonomic design. They provide a fuss-free way to carry your baby while keeping your hands free, whether you’re running errands, going for a walk, or simply snuggling at home.
With adjustable shoulder and waist straps secured by buckles, they’re quick to put on and take off, and their design ensures excellent weight distribution for both you and your baby. They come in a variety of sizes enabling you to carry your child from newborn up to the age of 5 or 6.
Waterfall vs. Apron Style Carriers
When shopping for a buckle carrier, you’ll encounter two main styles: waterfall and apron.
An image showing different types of carriers. From top to bottom: Integra, Mamaruga Zen Sling, Lenny up
Waterfall Style Carriers like Lenny Lamb, Ergobaby, Tula, Mamaruga, and Boba are more structured, often featuring thicker waistbands and the option for forward-facing carries. Their design offers extra support, but they can feel bulkier compared to apron styles.
Apron Style Carriers like Integra, Kahubaby, and Oscha’s Bairn focus on simplicity. They’re less structured, lighter, and tend to have fewer adjustment points, which many parents appreciate for their ease of use. While apron carriers are more minimalist, they still provide excellent comfort and support.
Why Choose a Buckle Carrier?
If you’re after a babywearing option that’s simple yet functional, buckle carriers are a fantastic choice. There’s no need to deal with complicated wraps or intricate knots, making them perfect for busy parents for whom convenience is key. Whether you’re tackling housework, heading to the park, or simply looking for a way to carry your baby close while keeping your hands free, buckle carriers offer a practical, stylish solution.
Key Features to Look For
Several key features set high-quality buckle carriers apart:
An image showing PFAs on the Boba X buckle carrier
– Perfect Fit Adjusters (PFAs): These allow for customizable adjustments to ensure both you and your baby are comfortable.
– Panel Height and Width Adjusters: Essential for ensuring a snug fit as your baby grows.
– Sleep Hoods: Provide extra privacy and protection from the elements.
– Dual-way Adjusters: Offer more flexibility when fastening and adjusting the carrier.
These features not only enhance comfort but also make babywearing a more enjoyable experience for both the parent and the baby.
Using Your Buckle Carrier
Using a buckle carrier is typically straightforward, but don’t be discouraged if you struggle to fasten it at first—this is common, and there are plenty of helpful tips to make it easier! Always refer to the manufacturer’s instructions for proper positioning and safety guidelines. It’s important to ensure your baby is seated in the ergonomic “M” shape, which supports healthy hip and spine development.
An image showing the ‘M’ Shape
Buckle carriers offer versatile carrying options, including front, back, and hip carries. While front-facing carries are a popular choice, not all buckle carriers support this position. In some cases, hip or back carries may be safer and more comfortable as your baby grows. You’ll also find that some buckle carriers offer a choice between X-shaped (crossed) straps or H-shaped (rucksack) straps, while others only offer one style. Try both if possible to see which suits you better.
Beyond functionality, buckle carriers come in a wide range of colours and designs, allowing you to showcase your style while babywearing—whether you prefer classic neutrals or vibrant patterns.
What to Avoid
While there are many fantastic options on the market, it’s essential to steer clear of carriers that compromise on safety or comfort. Brands like Infantino and older models of Baby Bjorn have faced criticism for lacking ergonomic support, potentially leading to discomfort for the baby. Always prioritize reputable brands that are known for their quality and safety standards.
Exploring British Babywearing Brands
Back carry in the Mamaruga Zen Sling with a 2 year old
If you’re looking to support local businesses, there are several excellent British babywearing brands that are worth exploring. Brands like Rose and Rebellion, Mamaruga, Izmi, and Kahubaby offer beautifully crafted, stylish, and functional buckle carriers. These lesser-known brands combine safety, comfort, and craftsmanship to provide parents with unique babywearing options.
Final Thoughts
Buckle carriers are a versatile and convenient option for babywearing, but finding the right one is a personal journey. There is no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to carriers—what works best for one parent may not suit another. The key is to focus on what feels comfortable and secure for you and your baby.
Whether you’re just beginning your babywearing adventure or are an experienced wearer looking to expand your collection, buckle carriers offer a fantastic way to keep your baby close while staying hands-free. With so many styles, features, and designs to choose from, there’s a perfect buckle carrier out there for every parent and caregiver. Above all, remember to prioritize safety, comfort, and proper positioning for a nurturing and enjoyable babywearing experience.
One thing I often see on facebook groups is ‘can I continue to wear my child whilst pregnant?’ The answer is generally yes, assuming that you are having a straight-forward and healthy pregnancy.
For many babywearing offers not only a convenient form of transport, but also becomes a comfort for both you and your child. It is, therefore unsurprising that many of us wish to continuing carrying our children throughout our pregnancy. This post will look at the benefits of babywearing while pregnant, safety tips, and how to choose the right carrier.
This guide can be read in its entirety, or you can click on any of the headings below to go straight to that section:
Babywearing is the practice of carrying your child in a sling, wrap, or carrier, letting you move freely while keeping your little one close. For many mums, this continues to be an enjoyable way to connect, even as their bodies change throughout pregnancy. However, it is vital that you listen to your body. Your comfort level should guide your decision, so pay close attention to how your body feels. Many women find that babywearing not only supports their current child emotionally but also helps manage the physical demands of pregnancy.
Benefits of Babywearing While Pregnant
There are significant benefits to babywearing during pregnancy.
A mehdai carrier
Enhancing the bond with your older child is perhaps the most profound benefit. As your family expands, feelings of jealousy or confusion can arise. Holding your little one close helps reassure them that they are still loved and valued.
Moreover, babywearing allows you to maintain your routine. Activities like park visits or playdates do not need to be complicated. You can maintain an active lifestyle whist still engaging with your older child, making life more manageable.
Safety Considerations
While babywearing can be safe during pregnancy, it is essential to keep some safety tips in mind:
First, be aware of your balance. As your pregnancy advances, your center of gravity shifts. Choose a carrier that evenly distributes weight and provides support. Many carriers can be used during pregnancy with a few adjustments. See the gallery for a selection of the range I have available in the library.
Furthermore, the position of your baby matters. Opt for a carrier that allows for an upright position to keep pressure off your abdomen. Ensuring that your child is securely positioned can minimize strain and keep both of you comfortable.
Considerations for Different Stages of Pregnancy
Your babywearing approach may change with each trimester. Here is how you can adapt:
First Trimester: Early on, you may find babywearing easier since your belly is small. Many women find at this stage they do not need to adapt their babywearing styles.
Second Trimester: This is often the period of time during which many women begin to feel uncomfortable as their bumps begin to grow and waistbands begin to feel tight or uncomfortable in their usual position. It is often at this stage that many ladies stop wearing their child. However, adjusting how you use your carrier, or changing carrier can extend your babywearing journey. If you are unsure do contact your local sling library for advice.
Third Trimester: You might feel more fatigued in this stage. Choose lightweight carriers, and limit how long you wear your child. Always listen to your body and adjust accordingly.
Choosing the Right Carrier
Selecting the right carrier is crucial for a positive babywearing experience. Your carrier should offer you and your child comfort and support: Look for ergonomic designs that are supportive and distribute weight evenly. For example, a well-designed soft-structured carrier with padded shoulder straps can go a long way in providing needed support.
There is no one size fits all carrier or sling, and what works for one person, may not be the best for you. However, here are some options that you could consider:
Using a buckle carrier with waistband positioned above the bump
A buckle carrier – in this image the Hanababy Expand available here is being used. A buckle carrier offers an easy option for those who already own one and are comfortable and confident using it.
Some adjustments tend to be needed to enable a safe and comfortable wearing experience. Waistbands should be placed above or below the bump depending on the size of the child and whether the carrier is being worn on the front, or the back. Whilst it should be snug, it should not be tight and should not be putting pressure on your bump. Many women find that a full buckle carrier becomes uncomfortable as their bump grows. However, some carriers (such as apron-style carriers) have less structured waistbands and these can be more comfortable as your pregnancy progresses. For example the Kahubaby carrier available here. You can read more about buckle carriers here.
A half-buckle carrier
A Half-buckle Carrier:
A half-buckle is a nice intermediary for those who like the ease of buckles, but prefer the comfort of a less structured carrier.
The market offers a wide variety of options. Some have padded wrap to straps as shown in the image, while others have full wrap straps, such as the Didyklick. Furthermore, waistbands differ in their level of structure, with some being more rigid and others less so, highlighting the need for careful research. However, on the whole, waistbands tend to be less structured than those on some full buckle carriers. Finally, one key advantage of a half-buckle carrier is that it is made from woven wrap fabrics, enabling it to mold perfectly to your body, providing a very comfortable experience.
A meh dai:
A meh dai carrier resembles a half-buckle carrier, but it features ties instead of a buckle waistband, offering a gentle and comfortable choice for use during pregnancy. It can be tied in multiple ways. Please refer to the gallery images for this carrier.
A ring sling with a 2 year old
A ring sling:
A ring sling is a good option for a hip carry whilst keeping mum’s hands free, or allowing for front snuggles.It can be used for a quick up, or for a toddler who cannot decide whether they would prefer to be carried or walk. They do put the majority of the weight on one side of the body, so may not be suitable for those who are struggling with back or hip pains.
A woven wrap:
A woven wrap is likely the most adaptable choice for carrying during pregnancy, as it can be effortlessly adjusted for the wearer’s comfort.
A woven wrap with the waistband spread
A woven wrap can be tied in numerous ways, giving you the choice to use a waistband or not, based on your preferences. Additionally, being made of woven fabric, they conform perfectly to you and your child, providing support that a buckled carrier might not offer.
When using a woven wrap during pregnancy, be cautious not to depend on it for bump support. As with any carrier, pay attention to your body and make sure the wrap isn’t exerting pressure on your abdomen. However, carries with waistbands can have the waistband extended to provide hip support, which can be quite relieving for some women. For more information on woven wraps, please check out this blog post.
An Onbuhimo:
An onbuhimo is a traditional Japanese-style carrier intended for use on the back. It lacks a waistband, making it ideal for pregnancy as it avoids putting pressure on your abdominal area. Most models also feature a chest strap to keep the straps from slipping off your shoulders. Additionally, they are easier to use than a woven wrap, yet offer a comfortable option during pregnancy. Please refer to the gallery of images of the onbuhimo.
Embracing Your Journey
In summary, babywearing while pregnant can be both a practical and fulfilling choice. By choosing the right carrier and following safety tips, you can continue to nurture your bond with your older child while navigating the wonderful yet challenging experience of pregnancy. Always listen to your body, and ensure that you are following any medical advice you have been given. Local sling libraries will also be able to offer you advice and support for babywearing during pregnancy.
Every family’s journey is different, so trust your instincts. Enjoy these precious moments as you prepare for your growing family!
